This is a new day! Treat it like it is a NEW DAY. Cherish the Day, start with something afresh. Start with a smile, or a few kind words that will benefit someone else instead of you. Leave the hurts, the pains and the bad of yesterday behind… Stick your troubles in the mist of yesterday where they can’t reach into your tomorrow. Rehearsing them has not healed you, has it? Life is meant to be lived not rehearsed. Life is the real thing, not the rehearsing. Stop reliving it and live it. You have God’s permission to go on!
So stop your DAILY self-medication of unforgiveness. It just drove you deeper into yourself, festering and waiting to erupt on the next unsuspecting individual. No, human being can pay for the inhumanity of man. The cost is too great. Jesus paid for the past, present and future of inhumanity to man. He paid it in full. He gave you a new slate and His blood is the eraser to keep your slate clean.
Am I saying get over it? No,… I’m saying get over you and you in it; you are not the only one life has hurt. Your hurt validates that you have been hurt. That is enough. Stop looking for the validation from the perpetrator that he hurt you, that’s the reason why he is a perpetrator. The hurt is the validation that you have been hurt.
You don’t need an outside source to prove you’ve been hurt.The perpetrator cannot give you what he hasn’t got. He’s bankrupt on love, compassion and VALIDATION. Get on with life and get on with living.
Lamentations 3:22 – 26 (AMP)
22 It is because of the Lord’s mercy and loving-kindness that we are not consumed, because His [tender] compassions fail not.
23 They are new every morning; great and abundant is Your stability and faithfulness.
24 The Lord is my portion or share, says my living being (my inner self); therefore will I hope in Himand wait expectantly for Him.
25 The Lord is good to those who wait hopefully and expectantly for Him, to those who seek Him [inquire of and for Him and require Him by right of necessity and on the authority of God’s word].
26 It is good that one should hope in and wait quietly for the salvation (the safety and ease) of the Lord.
GOD IS LOVE, LOVE CONQUERS ALL